The Meaning of the Advent Wreath

Obscure in origin, it's believed that the Advent Wreath may have had its beginning in the pagan fire wheel.  In Christian symbolism, the wheel or wreath stands for eternity.  Its use is especially fitting during Advent, the season of anticipation of the coming of our Lord.

Children love the beauty of the simple traditional ceremony.  Lighting candles in an Advent Wreath is a simple way to start a tradition of family worship in the home  Those who participate will cherish the experience all their lives.

The Advent Wreath Ceremony

The ceremony is simple.  It starts at the evening meal on the Saturday before the first Sunday of Advent with the blessing of the wreath.  

(The head of the household is the one designated to say the prayers, following which various members of his family light the candles.  If the group is not a family, then a leader may be selected to say the prayers and others appointed to light the candles.)

For blessing the wreath, the following prayer is suggested:

Father:  O God, by whose word all things are sanctified, pour forth Your blessing upon this wreath and grant that we who use it may prepare our hearts for the coming of the Christ and may receive from You abundant graces.  Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Then follows the prayer which said before the evening meal each night of the first week in Advent

The First Week

Father:  O Lord, stir up Your might, we beg You, and come, that by Your protection we may deserve to be rescued from the threatening dangers of our sins and saved by Your deliverance.  Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Each night the first purple candle is lighted by the youngest child of household and is left burning during the meal.  

The Second Week

Father:  O Lord, stir up our heats that we may prepare for Your only begotten Son; that through His coming we may be made worthy to serve You with pure minds.  Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

Then the eldest child lights not only the first but a second purple candle.  Both candles burn during the evening meal as before.

The Third Week

The joyful Sunday in Advent (known as "Gaudete") is represented by rose (or pink) instead of the penitential purple color.  Each night during the third week the mother of the family lights the pink, as well as the two previously burned candles, after the following prayer has been said.

Father:  O Lord, we beg You, incline Your heart to our prayers and enlighten the darkness our out minds by the grace of Your visitation  Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

The Fourth Week

The father of the household lights all four candles in proper sequence during the fourth week after repeating the following prayer.

Father:  O Lord, stir up Your power, we pray, and come, and with great might help us that with the help of Your Grace, Your merciful forgiveness may hasten what our sins impede.  Through Christ our Lord. Amen.

(Candles can replaced as necessary during a particular Advent Season without reblessing the wreath.)

After Advent

For the Christmas Season which follows immediately after Advent, candles and ribbons can be changed to white.  If you wish, the wreath itself can be freshened with new greens and decorated festively for use during the holiday period.  Lighting all four white candles to burn during the principal meal each day of the Christmas Season is a customary and appropriate practice.

For other Advent Wreath family liturgies, check our these sights:
Passionist Missionaries    
Catholic Online